Ahh to truly possess all we have been and done: the shiny, the dull and just plain ugly. Who would willingly sign up for such an endeavour? It is much easier to stay on the surface, to retreat from complexity, to distance ourselves from discomfort, to change the channel, to say it is all too hard. The inconvenient reality, sadly, is that we can’t tap out or turn away if we want to work towards wholeness in our lives. There are no shortcuts. But….
“….if we are willing to move through the pain of honest self-examination toward the grace of compassionate self-acceptance, the rewards are great.
When we can say, “I am all of the above,” we become more at ease in our own skin, more at home on the face of this richly diverse earth,
more accepting of others who are no more or less flawed than we are, and better able to live as life-givers to the end of our days.”
~Parker Palmer